Domestic violence or potential domestic violence

Joined 4 years

If woman playfully hits a guy she’s dating but the guy doesn’t like it and asks for her to stop and she doesn’t. Is he being “dramatic” and “needs to get help” for telling her he doesn’t want to date her anymore?

4 years

Domestic violence or potential domestic violence

Arame

Joined 4 years

Ditzy:
If she hits and says she is playing but still won't stop I think if I were a guy I would break it off.
Its not being dramatic IMO because what will she be liable to do when she is really upset?

Exactly. Also what will happen if the guy is forced to defend himself. He will automatically be the bad guy

4 years

Domestic violence or potential domestic violence

Reflection Of Perfection

Joined 15 years

I dont care what gender you are, "please stop hitting me" should not be ignored or brushed aside. Imagine if you hit her just as hard and said "just playing, right?"

4 years

Domestic violence or potential domestic violence

MickRidem

Joined 7 years

Slasher92:
I was in an abusive relationship with someone who regularly hit me and insulted me. She even stabbed me.

She refused to acknowledge her toxic behaviors and reinforced I was the toxic one, and went around saying I was abusive.

I broke it off with her, so she retaliated by outing me as a feeder on a Facebook group exposing abusers, saying I preyed on plus sized women.

Good riddance. My advice would be to NEVER ignore even the smallest red flags. This goes for all genders/gender identities. Nobody is worth being abused.

I'm sorry this happened to you. I'm glad you got out.

4 years

Domestic violence or potential domestic violence

MickRidem

Joined 7 years

Arame:
If woman playfully hits a guy she’s dating but the guy doesn’t like it and asks for her to stop and she doesn’t. Is he being “dramatic” and “needs to get help” for telling her he doesn’t want to date her anymore?

She's immature, doesn't understand what it means to respect others, and by NO means is it "dramatic" to ask her to stop. That shit does NOT fly with me. Hands off means hands off. She clearly doesn't respect you and I would also walk away.

4 years

Domestic violence or potential domestic violence

MickRidem

Joined 7 years

Ditzy:
Good point.
Immature and lacks respect for others.

I've known women like this, my mom would call them "silly girls" and life is too short for this garbage.

4 years

Domestic violence or potential domestic violence

Arame

Joined 4 years

Thanks everyone for your input. I knew It wasn’t just me

4 years

Domestic violence or potential domestic violence

CurvyPiggy

Joined 5 years

I wouldn’t want anyone like that in my life. If you tell them to stop it means stop. That’s just disrespectful and rude.

4 years

Domestic violence or potential domestic violence

Newenglander

Joined 13 years

Either two people are compatible or they're not.

Some people thrive on pain, others on comfort, others on being left alone.

If a partner's behavior is abhorrent, and they refuse to accommodate your preferences, leave.

If you can't leave due to fear, involve the authorities. A situation this bad will only get worse.

There are billions of people in this world. It's insane to waste one's life in a bad relationship.

4 years

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Domestic violence or potential domestic violence

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